Anxiety is a pain in the hole. Excuse the crudeness, but it’s true. So much so, that simple, everyday things can become really difficult. Thankfully, the blogging community is a great place to share tips with fellow anxiety sufferers and reach out to others who are struggling. So, with that in mind, I’ve decided to start a new series on my blog, which I’ve called The Anxious Person’s Guide. I have quite a few ideas lined up for future posts, and today, I’ll be sharing the first one with you. Enjoy, and if you have any ideas for a future post, please let me know in the comments!
Coming into the summer months means that for a lot of us, it’s holiday time. The ultimate excuse to relax and enjoy yourself. Unless you have anxiety. I never used to enjoy holidays – or rather, I didn’t enjoy the idea of them – but over the years I’ve gotten much better, even to the point where I got on a plane for the first time a few years ago. Last year was the first time I’d ever looked forward to a holiday 100% – yes, I was a little bit anxious, but I think it was more from excitement than anything else. I think it’s partially because we left it so late we ended up going to the same place as the year before, familiarity and all that, but even so, it was an achievement. These last few months as I’m sure my regular readers will know have been difficult for me anxiety wise, given that I’ve been having some issues with my stomach, so it’s no surprise that this year, I’m much more anxious about travelling. I’m determined to still go away this summer though, and I’m going to be taking advantage of a few tips that have helped me to cope over the years. So, for today’s post, I’ll be sharing them with you. Enjoy!
Know Your Triggers
Travelling with anxiety is never easy, but I’ve found that preparing for what triggers it most can be really helpful. Before you set off, think about the aspects of travelling that cause your anxiety to spike most, and that way you can plan around them. For me, I get most anxious about the flying element, so I do the following:
- Make a playlist of my favourite songs on Spotify – just be sure to download it so you can listen offline. I also have a really good anxiety playlist that I listen to when I’m feeling particularly on edge.
- Pack a book and a couple of magazines. I like to have options, so this means I can keep things varied and switch to something else if I need to.
- Take a packet of mints – anyone who’s a regular reader will know that nausea is my main symptom when I feel anxious. Mints help to ease this, and they’re also handy to suck on as you take off.
- Get to the airport in plenty of time – it’s a given, but I’ve found that having a mooch around the duty free and getting a cup of tea helps to take my mind off the nerves. By the time you’re finished, it’s usually time to head to your boarding gate!
- Don’t overdo the drinks! I have a real thing about using the toilet on a plane. While I’m now able to get on a plane I’ve yet to tackle going to the toilet on one. The idea of germs in that small a space just terrifies me. While I won’t go to the extreme of not drinking at all (and of course I don’t condone that!), I’ll take a bottle of water with me on the flight to sip, but I won’t gulp it down within the first hour and I’ll avoid getting any extra ones throughout. And in case you’re wondering, I’ve never done a long-haul flight. That’s a whole different kettle of fish.
One of the reasons I love to be organised is because it gives me a sense of control. Travelling is no exception. Little things like printing off your boarding passes and keeping all of your documents together can go a long way in easing the travel anxiety. There’s nothing worse than frantically clawing through your bag to find your passport when there’s a queue of fellow passengers behind you! Here’s a few things I like to do to feel prepared before my travels:
- Make lists! I’ll have a packing list and a to-do list. The to-do list helps me stay organised if I’ve got a load of stuff to do before I travel, and the packing list makes sure I don’t forget the important things.
- Pack all of the things I know I’ll need on the plane (or will just feel better for having close by) in my hand luggage.
- Don’t forget your drugs! In addition to my usual medication, I like to make sure I’ve got some painkillers and some Imodium to hand in my bag. Just in case!
Do Your Research
We all know that doing a little research beforehand can also make a big difference when you travel with anxiety. Obviously it’s a good idea to do your research in the form of reading a few travel reviews before you book your trip all together, but it can still be a good idea to do some research afterwards. I quite like to have a look at the website of the hotel I’m staying at so that I know what to expect in terms of what my room will look like and to learn a bit more about the facilities. It’s also a good idea to research a few restaurants too, as I found that loosely planning where we’re going to eat makes me feel a little more relaxed. We spent most of one holiday scrolling through TripAdvisor trying to find where to go for each meal, and it was more stressful than it should have been!
Think of the Positives!
While we all know it’s easier said than done, thinking positively about your trip and focusing on the things you’ve got to look forward to is one of the best ways you can stop travel anxiety getting the better of you. Think of the quality time you’ll be spending with your family/other half/friends. Have a few day trips planned, or even just plan a day chilling by the pool if that’s what you’d prefer. The best thing to think of? Think of how amazing you’ll feel when you come home knowing you’ve conquered those nerves! Despite the fact that I cried a lot and got myself into a state on my first ever plane journey, I felt amazing the second that plane touched the ground. I was immensely proud of myself and couldn’t believe I’d done it. To most people it’s a very basic achievement, but for me, it was something I never thought I’d do!
What are your top tips for dealing with travel anxiety?